Those families can grieve privately.

But the other side of that is Deborah Harvey's family is being subjected to intense scrutiny, and they will never be permitted to grieve privately because of who Deborah's mother is.

He is sticking to his plan, which, for now, is to grieve privately after the death of Dale Earnhardt, his father.

Despite the anger and sadness he felt, his years of training had taught him that when the time came, he would be able to grieve privately, but that for now, he needed to filter his emotions.

Phil Collins was invited but said he preferred to grieve privately.

When Linda McCartney died of breast cancer in Tucson on April 17, a spokesman for Paul McCartney, her husband, asked that the family be allowed to grieve privately.

Mr. Trudeau grieved privately.

Respectfully, we request time to grieve privately as a family.

Had Barrie been in the First Lady's situation, she would have wanted to grieve privately.

She did, however, spend many months grieving privately for the man she said "validated my outrageousness," just as Capote had.